Post by Sowelu on Feb 7, 2006 0:12:19 GMT -5
THE TOBIAS MATERIALS
The Clarity Series: "SHOUD 6" - Featuring Tobias, channeled by Geoffrey Hoppe
Questions and Answers
Presented to the Crimson Circle
January 7, 2006[/b]
www.crimsoncircle.com
And so it is, dear Shaumbra, that we continue our gathering here in the Shaumbra Service Center. A place where you can truly just be. A place where you can ask the questions of yourself, put them out, let them go. And the answers come back. Sometimes from this place we call the crystalline realm. Sometimes from synchronicities all around you. Sometimes it comes into your heart or into your mind. Sometimes the answers are delivered by other people or circumstances into your life.
Getting the answers is really not as difficult as you thought. Some of you created some very complex mazes, some very complex message for trying to bring answers into your life, and then you get totally frustrated and got upset with it and began to expect answers from other people ... how to guide your life ... and they can’t do that.
So Shaumbra, a few things from today’s Shoud to remember, to allow the energies to soak in, is to understand that one of the greatest frustrations that you have is this element of time. Understand that you can expand, contract time. You can literally – literally create multiple time dimensions in your reality. You don’t have to just expand out time but you can literally create a series of time potentials all existing right now in your Now. You can have a condensed dimension of time. If you’re trying to get through a project fast, you can have it so that time appears to go quickly and when you need more time for another project you’re working on, simultaneously expand it. Time doesn’t have to be singular either.
Also to remember from today’s Shoud was that as these aspects of the Self – what the Self has been constructed of in its reality base on Earth – you have the light and the dark and how they are eclipsing together. They are coming back together providing in a sense a reverse shadow of themselves and a reverse shadow of potentials. Again, it is appropriate because shadows just don’t have to be behind where the light source is coming from, or where the reality base is focused on. It can also have a forward type of shadow. I want you to think expanded and to be expanded in every possible way. Take nothing at its face value.
We’re gathering ... St. Germain, by the way, has left and it should be a relief for those who are going to be asking questions today (audience laughter). He wanted to participate in the Shoud, but he had a dinner engagement tonight. He’s literally … Cauldre said he doesn’t believe us … but it is true. He’s literally going to be dining with President Bush tonight (lots of laughter). He is not going to be manifesting himself as St. Germain, but he’s going to be manifesting as another being who will be sitting at the table. We’re not being given permission to state who it is. But he’s going to be – how to say – trying to get that big year once again to listen, to share some information in terms of – how to say – a more compassionate nature about the world. So literally that is where he is going to. He’s going off and getting dressed right now for the occasion (laughter). So I, Tobias, will be handling the questions that will be coming up.
But I want to share with all that St. Germain a while back announced that he was going to be doing a very special retreat with a small group of Shaumbra that he, and only he, selected for a variety of reasons. This retreat was going to deal with the whole issue of new energy hypnosis. What overlays are, how hypnosis works right now in old energy, and literally how to use, work with, a new type of hypnosis – a new energy hypnosis that is very compassionate. It is not manipulative in any way. It is simply allowing. The new hypnosis has to do with the synchronicity of events, more or less, being the creator of synchronicity rather than having synchronicity as something that happens to you if you are fortunate enough. But being the creator of synchronistic events in your life.
All of the information from this workshop, which is taking place this next week, in a, literally, a remote island with a small group of Shaumbra. All of this information, according to St. Germain, will be then available and shared with all of Shaumbra. And you do not have to go through a class to get this information, but in order to set the energy for it, this small group is assembling. So we’re going to ask all Shaumbra to help move that energy, share their energy, for this retreat is going to be transpiring based on this time zone, on Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday of this coming week. And then the information will be made available after that. It will be important information in terms of understanding really how overlays and how hypnosis works and how you can be a part of it when you want to and not be part of it. And literally through this retreat will be bringing in the first of what we call the new energy type of hypnosis.
Hypnosis is not a bad word. Some of you have certain feelings about it, that it is used to alter or manipulate the mind. It can be. But hypnosis or belief system – how to say – grounding, that’s what it really is, belief system grounding, will be a very instrumental tool for all of Shaumbra. So that is coming up soon.
So Shaumbra, we also talked – gave the analogy of the car. We gave that simply to help you understand so you got out of your own head for a minute. How the different layers of reality stack on top of each other. A car, without a brain, is simply a vehicle. Simply a vehicle to help you get around, to help you be in a reality. Once you add a brain to the vehicle, it changes the nature in a multidimensional way. Then you add feelings, awarenesses, and finally Spirit. In a sense, you are a car. You are that analogy. But you were built Spirit first, and then you brought down your energies into these other layers. You already are very multidimensional. We wanted you to feel what it was like to be just the body – to be the body and the mind – and then the body, mind and feeling – to understand that most humans work from these three basic levels without truly incorporating the Spirit.
Somewhere within this vehicle of yours lies this crystalline energy connector. It has always been there – the Christ Seed within you. You’ve known it. You have felt it, but you can’t seem to put your hands on it. At some point, as we said, you locked it away. You shut it down. You turned it off. That is not meant literal, because it is always active, but in a sense you ignored it. You hypnotized yourself into believing that it wasn’t active, that it wasn’t even there.
So we have given you homework to do, and we truly ask, Shaumbra, work together on this. Work by yourselves but please do it. Look into the reasons why you shut it down and when you shut it down. And trust yourself when your imagination, when the answer comes through. Trust yourself. Then when the first layer of answer comes through take a deep breath and let the next layer come through and the next. You’re going to find out that this is truly multi-layered. There are many reasons and there are many times when you shut that down.
Then you’re going to be posed with a question – “Are you ready to open it up again?” Are you ready to again connect on the crystalline non-mental levels with yourself, with All That Is. You still maintain all your physical attributes. You still maintain all of the – the fact that you’re a human on Earth. But now you open to a whole new level. Imagine that you are this vehicle with the Soul, the feelings, the brain and the body and somewhere you have shut down or hidden this connection to realms that are indescribable. Imagine now what that adds to the mix, to the multidimensional layer of Self if that is brought back into reality.
It is difficult homework in a way, and it’s going to require some very inward looking. And it’s going to require perhaps going through some difficult remembrances. We said before that through some of the oaths and vows and promises that you gave yourself, you boarded over, you nailed over those connections that you’ve had. You’ve even hid those boards and nails pretending that they’re not there. Only you can open those back up, Shaumbra. If you’ve hid them, you can unhide them. We can’t. We literally, and we mean this literally, because you hid them, even we can’t see them. If you come to us and say, “But where did I hide that? Where did I fool myself?” We don’t know, because you fooled yourself so well, you can fool the rest of us. That is how hypnosis works.
With that, we’d be delighted to answer your questions.
LINDA: Oops! The overlay of time says you’ve used up all your time. (Laughter).
TOBIAS: I have altered time to fit my needs.
QUESTION FROM SHAUMBRA 1 (from the internet, read by Linda): Hi Tobias. I’m Hildego from Hungary. I would like to give up smoking, but it was a failure. Help me. What can I do? Thanks a lot.
TOBIAS: Indeed, and this is one that touches close to Cauldre, so we’re going to ask him to back away for a little bit. First of all, we have to say there is a tremendous overlay about smoking. Now, I have to say that smoking is probably not the best thing you can do for your body, but your body does know how to assimilate all of the smoke and anything else that you take in.
But what is happened because of the overlays – actually, the conflicting overlays and hypnosis that are taking place, it leaves the smokers who are trying to quit in a dilemma. Plus you add the fact that nicotine, in itself, is perhaps one of the most influential ingredients on Earth. Nicotine can lead you to believe anything – can reinforce belief systems very easily. It can be used to reinforce a belief system that smoking is bad or addictive. So when this is fed to you through media or through other people, even through quote/unquote “scientific studies” that smoking is addictive and it’s bad, the nicotine responds to that, because it is a belief system that you at least, in part, hold for yourself. So now, you’re deep in the trap of this whole thing of smoking.
The best thing, actually, if you’re trying to quit smoking is to start smoking, and to stop trying to quit. You have to go ask yourself why you are quitting … because you’ve been told that it is bad … because you don’t feel energized. For whatever reason, you have to go into these. You should not try to quit smoking when you’re trying to quit smoking. You should go in and understand the reasons first.
Come into the Shaumbra Service Center, then allow us to work with you in the crystalline realms. Allow us to work with you and observing the smoking. You’re going to find out when you started, how you started. You’re going to find out the little trigger that has now grown into this huge issue of smoking. You’re going to find out that you can let go of these overlays and that, when we get down to the core level, if you truly want to quit, you’ll be able to. You’ll be able literally to just walk away. We see so many of you struggling with this and beating yourself up, and it’s truly not worth it. The damage that you do through this negative belief reinforcement is greater than the damage from smoking as itself – if there is a damage.
So … there is a very interesting energy here, because you have on one hand sources saying that’s smoking is bad, and some of you even here believe that it is just terrible. It is no worse than any other thing that you bring into your body. On the other hand, you have the tobacco industry itself glamorizing smoking, making it so that it seems that it is very, very glamorous, that it is very relaxing. That is an overlay in itself. I want you to look back. It was not that long ago, perhaps in the last 100 to 150 years where people smoked and they didn’t get addicted to it. They could smoke … the first nations, the American Indians and other indigenous, have used tobacco for a long time, and it wasn’t addictive.
So when did it become addictive? When did the overlays get so strong? When did you fall into that trap? And how can you get yourself out of that so you can make a clear and free choice, rather than one based on fear and overlays. Thank you.
QUESTION FROM SHAUMBRA 2 (a woman at the microphone): Tobias, can you comment on BEAM?, the work of Dr. Joan Beattie in Toronto, and is this an appropriate thing for me to get involved with at this time?
TOBIAS: Indeed … there are many, many different types of energy work, facilitation work, going on right now. There is no one that is correct or incorrect. Look at it as something that’s helping you to expand your own awareness. We don’t want to make any specific comments here (a) about this particular type of work, or (b) about whether you should make the decision. You have to feel that within yourself.
The one thing that we would question any Shaumbra with is feeling that any one school of work is the only work, including Crimson Circle and Shaumbra. Crimson Circle is a gathering place. It is not about a work in itself. It is where we gather together. We learn and grow. We bring in information from the outside. So … often we see though that Shaumbra will jump into one study of work and think it is the only thing. Many of you listening or here today have participated in Course in Miracles. There was a point when some of you felt it was the only answer. You’ve learned now it was part of a grander answer. It was part of an awakening.
So we encourage you to follow your own feelings and to feed from it, receive from it, what is appropriate for you and feed back what is appropriate.
SHAUMBRA 2: Thank you.
TOBIAS: Thank you.
QUESTION FROM SHAUMBRA 3 (from the internet, read by Linda): Tobias, I can’t feel my way through this. I have always done poorly when dealing with my biological family. When I do make attempts at interacting, it goes fine, as long as I ask about them and complimentary to them, ask about their children, I am complimentary. Nobody ever asks about my life or what I care about. There is gross dysfunction and enabling is mistaken as unconditional love. If I’m not careful, I get sucked in and start playing a terrible drama in duality. There’s one sibling above all others that I have the worst relationship with. Attempts to resolve the situation have been a dismal failure. For the most part, it only bothers me because of some sort of later consequence. Any special feelings or insights for me and others with these problems reconciling biological family relationships.
TOBIAS: Indeed ... and Cauldre you really shouldn’t submit your own questions here! (Lots of laughter.) This is indeed a common situation for many Shaumbra. That’s why it sounds familiar to so many of you.
Biological families are – how to say – we could talk forever about this … but so many of you chose a – how to say – the quick fix for getting back here to Earth. You selected a biological family that perhaps wasn’t the most appropriate. Some of you chose biological families that you had had little or no connection to in past lives, so therefore you appear the black sheep of the family. Some of you chose what you know was going to be karmic hell but you chose it anyway, because you wanted a family to come into. You wanted that physical body and you also thought you could handle the old karma very well. So sometimes there wasn’t – how to say – the most balanced reason for choosing your family.
On top of that, because you’re energy tends to be at a different level than theirs, at times you are invisible to them. Just as so many of you are invisible at work, invisible at the grocery store, and you wonder why people don’t notice you or see you or pay attention to your need. Because they almost don’t see you or feel you. You are, in a sense, almost ghost-like to them. They know you’re there, but in a sense, you don’t really fit in and you’re really not there. They tend to forget to invite you over for Christmas. They tend to forget to invite you out to dinner .... because they kind of forget. But I saw the consequences of trying to jump back in very quickly.
One of the most difficult things is releasing the biological family. That, in itself, is a heavy overlay or a heavy hypnosis. That you have to get acceptance from your biological family before you can even get acceptance from yourself. It’s difficult, or as tough love as it is to say, sometimes you just have to – how to say – divorce your biological family.
You are being – how to say – at one point we talked about clamps and claws in you. And in a sense they have theirs in your and you have them in them. Sometimes, as difficult as it is, you just have to walk away. Not in anger or not to be dramatic, but simply because that biological family has outlived its purpose for you. There was a carrier vehicle to get you here to Earth. And when they threw you out at 17, you should have known …(laughter).
Now what does tend to happen often when you let go of some of those connections and you find your own new balance, a lot of times you find that they do come back to you, but you can’t disconnect with them with that expectation. You have to be truly willing to let that go and let it run its own course. In the case of you who are asking the question, there is an old past life karmic type of connection and in a sense there is a resentment that you’re following a different path. That you’re looking for new type of answers. The family karma, the ancestral karma, is that they have all the answers to begin with.
So you are probing and you are studying. You are looking into new arenas … in a sense it offends them. In a sense, angers them, and more than anything, they know if you change, you also change the whole potential for the lineage of ancestral karma. And there are some who are living and many who are dead who do not want to change the ancestral karma, the ancestral balance, of that family. So in a sense you’re lucky to have gotten this far. (Laughter) Thank you.
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The Clarity Series: "SHOUD 6" - Featuring Tobias, channeled by Geoffrey Hoppe
Questions and Answers
Presented to the Crimson Circle
January 7, 2006[/b]
www.crimsoncircle.com
And so it is, dear Shaumbra, that we continue our gathering here in the Shaumbra Service Center. A place where you can truly just be. A place where you can ask the questions of yourself, put them out, let them go. And the answers come back. Sometimes from this place we call the crystalline realm. Sometimes from synchronicities all around you. Sometimes it comes into your heart or into your mind. Sometimes the answers are delivered by other people or circumstances into your life.
Getting the answers is really not as difficult as you thought. Some of you created some very complex mazes, some very complex message for trying to bring answers into your life, and then you get totally frustrated and got upset with it and began to expect answers from other people ... how to guide your life ... and they can’t do that.
So Shaumbra, a few things from today’s Shoud to remember, to allow the energies to soak in, is to understand that one of the greatest frustrations that you have is this element of time. Understand that you can expand, contract time. You can literally – literally create multiple time dimensions in your reality. You don’t have to just expand out time but you can literally create a series of time potentials all existing right now in your Now. You can have a condensed dimension of time. If you’re trying to get through a project fast, you can have it so that time appears to go quickly and when you need more time for another project you’re working on, simultaneously expand it. Time doesn’t have to be singular either.
Also to remember from today’s Shoud was that as these aspects of the Self – what the Self has been constructed of in its reality base on Earth – you have the light and the dark and how they are eclipsing together. They are coming back together providing in a sense a reverse shadow of themselves and a reverse shadow of potentials. Again, it is appropriate because shadows just don’t have to be behind where the light source is coming from, or where the reality base is focused on. It can also have a forward type of shadow. I want you to think expanded and to be expanded in every possible way. Take nothing at its face value.
We’re gathering ... St. Germain, by the way, has left and it should be a relief for those who are going to be asking questions today (audience laughter). He wanted to participate in the Shoud, but he had a dinner engagement tonight. He’s literally … Cauldre said he doesn’t believe us … but it is true. He’s literally going to be dining with President Bush tonight (lots of laughter). He is not going to be manifesting himself as St. Germain, but he’s going to be manifesting as another being who will be sitting at the table. We’re not being given permission to state who it is. But he’s going to be – how to say – trying to get that big year once again to listen, to share some information in terms of – how to say – a more compassionate nature about the world. So literally that is where he is going to. He’s going off and getting dressed right now for the occasion (laughter). So I, Tobias, will be handling the questions that will be coming up.
But I want to share with all that St. Germain a while back announced that he was going to be doing a very special retreat with a small group of Shaumbra that he, and only he, selected for a variety of reasons. This retreat was going to deal with the whole issue of new energy hypnosis. What overlays are, how hypnosis works right now in old energy, and literally how to use, work with, a new type of hypnosis – a new energy hypnosis that is very compassionate. It is not manipulative in any way. It is simply allowing. The new hypnosis has to do with the synchronicity of events, more or less, being the creator of synchronicity rather than having synchronicity as something that happens to you if you are fortunate enough. But being the creator of synchronistic events in your life.
All of the information from this workshop, which is taking place this next week, in a, literally, a remote island with a small group of Shaumbra. All of this information, according to St. Germain, will be then available and shared with all of Shaumbra. And you do not have to go through a class to get this information, but in order to set the energy for it, this small group is assembling. So we’re going to ask all Shaumbra to help move that energy, share their energy, for this retreat is going to be transpiring based on this time zone, on Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday of this coming week. And then the information will be made available after that. It will be important information in terms of understanding really how overlays and how hypnosis works and how you can be a part of it when you want to and not be part of it. And literally through this retreat will be bringing in the first of what we call the new energy type of hypnosis.
Hypnosis is not a bad word. Some of you have certain feelings about it, that it is used to alter or manipulate the mind. It can be. But hypnosis or belief system – how to say – grounding, that’s what it really is, belief system grounding, will be a very instrumental tool for all of Shaumbra. So that is coming up soon.
So Shaumbra, we also talked – gave the analogy of the car. We gave that simply to help you understand so you got out of your own head for a minute. How the different layers of reality stack on top of each other. A car, without a brain, is simply a vehicle. Simply a vehicle to help you get around, to help you be in a reality. Once you add a brain to the vehicle, it changes the nature in a multidimensional way. Then you add feelings, awarenesses, and finally Spirit. In a sense, you are a car. You are that analogy. But you were built Spirit first, and then you brought down your energies into these other layers. You already are very multidimensional. We wanted you to feel what it was like to be just the body – to be the body and the mind – and then the body, mind and feeling – to understand that most humans work from these three basic levels without truly incorporating the Spirit.
Somewhere within this vehicle of yours lies this crystalline energy connector. It has always been there – the Christ Seed within you. You’ve known it. You have felt it, but you can’t seem to put your hands on it. At some point, as we said, you locked it away. You shut it down. You turned it off. That is not meant literal, because it is always active, but in a sense you ignored it. You hypnotized yourself into believing that it wasn’t active, that it wasn’t even there.
So we have given you homework to do, and we truly ask, Shaumbra, work together on this. Work by yourselves but please do it. Look into the reasons why you shut it down and when you shut it down. And trust yourself when your imagination, when the answer comes through. Trust yourself. Then when the first layer of answer comes through take a deep breath and let the next layer come through and the next. You’re going to find out that this is truly multi-layered. There are many reasons and there are many times when you shut that down.
Then you’re going to be posed with a question – “Are you ready to open it up again?” Are you ready to again connect on the crystalline non-mental levels with yourself, with All That Is. You still maintain all your physical attributes. You still maintain all of the – the fact that you’re a human on Earth. But now you open to a whole new level. Imagine that you are this vehicle with the Soul, the feelings, the brain and the body and somewhere you have shut down or hidden this connection to realms that are indescribable. Imagine now what that adds to the mix, to the multidimensional layer of Self if that is brought back into reality.
It is difficult homework in a way, and it’s going to require some very inward looking. And it’s going to require perhaps going through some difficult remembrances. We said before that through some of the oaths and vows and promises that you gave yourself, you boarded over, you nailed over those connections that you’ve had. You’ve even hid those boards and nails pretending that they’re not there. Only you can open those back up, Shaumbra. If you’ve hid them, you can unhide them. We can’t. We literally, and we mean this literally, because you hid them, even we can’t see them. If you come to us and say, “But where did I hide that? Where did I fool myself?” We don’t know, because you fooled yourself so well, you can fool the rest of us. That is how hypnosis works.
With that, we’d be delighted to answer your questions.
LINDA: Oops! The overlay of time says you’ve used up all your time. (Laughter).
TOBIAS: I have altered time to fit my needs.
QUESTION FROM SHAUMBRA 1 (from the internet, read by Linda): Hi Tobias. I’m Hildego from Hungary. I would like to give up smoking, but it was a failure. Help me. What can I do? Thanks a lot.
TOBIAS: Indeed, and this is one that touches close to Cauldre, so we’re going to ask him to back away for a little bit. First of all, we have to say there is a tremendous overlay about smoking. Now, I have to say that smoking is probably not the best thing you can do for your body, but your body does know how to assimilate all of the smoke and anything else that you take in.
But what is happened because of the overlays – actually, the conflicting overlays and hypnosis that are taking place, it leaves the smokers who are trying to quit in a dilemma. Plus you add the fact that nicotine, in itself, is perhaps one of the most influential ingredients on Earth. Nicotine can lead you to believe anything – can reinforce belief systems very easily. It can be used to reinforce a belief system that smoking is bad or addictive. So when this is fed to you through media or through other people, even through quote/unquote “scientific studies” that smoking is addictive and it’s bad, the nicotine responds to that, because it is a belief system that you at least, in part, hold for yourself. So now, you’re deep in the trap of this whole thing of smoking.
The best thing, actually, if you’re trying to quit smoking is to start smoking, and to stop trying to quit. You have to go ask yourself why you are quitting … because you’ve been told that it is bad … because you don’t feel energized. For whatever reason, you have to go into these. You should not try to quit smoking when you’re trying to quit smoking. You should go in and understand the reasons first.
Come into the Shaumbra Service Center, then allow us to work with you in the crystalline realms. Allow us to work with you and observing the smoking. You’re going to find out when you started, how you started. You’re going to find out the little trigger that has now grown into this huge issue of smoking. You’re going to find out that you can let go of these overlays and that, when we get down to the core level, if you truly want to quit, you’ll be able to. You’ll be able literally to just walk away. We see so many of you struggling with this and beating yourself up, and it’s truly not worth it. The damage that you do through this negative belief reinforcement is greater than the damage from smoking as itself – if there is a damage.
So … there is a very interesting energy here, because you have on one hand sources saying that’s smoking is bad, and some of you even here believe that it is just terrible. It is no worse than any other thing that you bring into your body. On the other hand, you have the tobacco industry itself glamorizing smoking, making it so that it seems that it is very, very glamorous, that it is very relaxing. That is an overlay in itself. I want you to look back. It was not that long ago, perhaps in the last 100 to 150 years where people smoked and they didn’t get addicted to it. They could smoke … the first nations, the American Indians and other indigenous, have used tobacco for a long time, and it wasn’t addictive.
So when did it become addictive? When did the overlays get so strong? When did you fall into that trap? And how can you get yourself out of that so you can make a clear and free choice, rather than one based on fear and overlays. Thank you.
QUESTION FROM SHAUMBRA 2 (a woman at the microphone): Tobias, can you comment on BEAM?, the work of Dr. Joan Beattie in Toronto, and is this an appropriate thing for me to get involved with at this time?
TOBIAS: Indeed … there are many, many different types of energy work, facilitation work, going on right now. There is no one that is correct or incorrect. Look at it as something that’s helping you to expand your own awareness. We don’t want to make any specific comments here (a) about this particular type of work, or (b) about whether you should make the decision. You have to feel that within yourself.
The one thing that we would question any Shaumbra with is feeling that any one school of work is the only work, including Crimson Circle and Shaumbra. Crimson Circle is a gathering place. It is not about a work in itself. It is where we gather together. We learn and grow. We bring in information from the outside. So … often we see though that Shaumbra will jump into one study of work and think it is the only thing. Many of you listening or here today have participated in Course in Miracles. There was a point when some of you felt it was the only answer. You’ve learned now it was part of a grander answer. It was part of an awakening.
So we encourage you to follow your own feelings and to feed from it, receive from it, what is appropriate for you and feed back what is appropriate.
SHAUMBRA 2: Thank you.
TOBIAS: Thank you.
QUESTION FROM SHAUMBRA 3 (from the internet, read by Linda): Tobias, I can’t feel my way through this. I have always done poorly when dealing with my biological family. When I do make attempts at interacting, it goes fine, as long as I ask about them and complimentary to them, ask about their children, I am complimentary. Nobody ever asks about my life or what I care about. There is gross dysfunction and enabling is mistaken as unconditional love. If I’m not careful, I get sucked in and start playing a terrible drama in duality. There’s one sibling above all others that I have the worst relationship with. Attempts to resolve the situation have been a dismal failure. For the most part, it only bothers me because of some sort of later consequence. Any special feelings or insights for me and others with these problems reconciling biological family relationships.
TOBIAS: Indeed ... and Cauldre you really shouldn’t submit your own questions here! (Lots of laughter.) This is indeed a common situation for many Shaumbra. That’s why it sounds familiar to so many of you.
Biological families are – how to say – we could talk forever about this … but so many of you chose a – how to say – the quick fix for getting back here to Earth. You selected a biological family that perhaps wasn’t the most appropriate. Some of you chose biological families that you had had little or no connection to in past lives, so therefore you appear the black sheep of the family. Some of you chose what you know was going to be karmic hell but you chose it anyway, because you wanted a family to come into. You wanted that physical body and you also thought you could handle the old karma very well. So sometimes there wasn’t – how to say – the most balanced reason for choosing your family.
On top of that, because you’re energy tends to be at a different level than theirs, at times you are invisible to them. Just as so many of you are invisible at work, invisible at the grocery store, and you wonder why people don’t notice you or see you or pay attention to your need. Because they almost don’t see you or feel you. You are, in a sense, almost ghost-like to them. They know you’re there, but in a sense, you don’t really fit in and you’re really not there. They tend to forget to invite you over for Christmas. They tend to forget to invite you out to dinner .... because they kind of forget. But I saw the consequences of trying to jump back in very quickly.
One of the most difficult things is releasing the biological family. That, in itself, is a heavy overlay or a heavy hypnosis. That you have to get acceptance from your biological family before you can even get acceptance from yourself. It’s difficult, or as tough love as it is to say, sometimes you just have to – how to say – divorce your biological family.
You are being – how to say – at one point we talked about clamps and claws in you. And in a sense they have theirs in your and you have them in them. Sometimes, as difficult as it is, you just have to walk away. Not in anger or not to be dramatic, but simply because that biological family has outlived its purpose for you. There was a carrier vehicle to get you here to Earth. And when they threw you out at 17, you should have known …(laughter).
Now what does tend to happen often when you let go of some of those connections and you find your own new balance, a lot of times you find that they do come back to you, but you can’t disconnect with them with that expectation. You have to be truly willing to let that go and let it run its own course. In the case of you who are asking the question, there is an old past life karmic type of connection and in a sense there is a resentment that you’re following a different path. That you’re looking for new type of answers. The family karma, the ancestral karma, is that they have all the answers to begin with.
So you are probing and you are studying. You are looking into new arenas … in a sense it offends them. In a sense, angers them, and more than anything, they know if you change, you also change the whole potential for the lineage of ancestral karma. And there are some who are living and many who are dead who do not want to change the ancestral karma, the ancestral balance, of that family. So in a sense you’re lucky to have gotten this far. (Laughter) Thank you.
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