Post by healing16 on Mar 9, 2005 19:15:27 GMT -5
Hi guys..
I really like to think of myself as a pretty non-judgmental person..but my sister started seeing this guy and from week 1, i knew he was married, and she was pretty much in denial, then this went on for weeks and then finally 3 months later, she called his bluff and finally got him to admitt to his situation..which is still fully didnt..he told her that his ex wife was still living with him but they werent married (ya right)..andyways..she admitted that she still didnt believe that and stopped seeing him for like a week and now is back to talking to him again and sneaking out to see him because she knows my mother and i would not like her seeing him..I am sooo trying to come form a non-judgmental place cuz shes my sis and i love her and we have just recently started getting close agiain..and its really non of my business...but i cant even look at her in the eyes most of the time thats how much it bothers me..i just cant stop thikning that she actually knows he's married and still seeing him, that there is a wife and child/family involved and that makes me soo sad..and this guy triggers alot of emotions in me..he makes me so mad..again i hate to judge..and i am not saying he is a bad person i just thinking what he is doing is pretty low..but mainly i am angry at my sis for doing it..i thought she would never do somethig like that..especially because she has had it happen to her..right after she moved into a new house with her fiance, she caught him cheating and they broke up..plus she deserves so much better then that..and she's settling for a married man..who is a pathelogical liar by the way..you should hear some of the lies he tries to tell her..she's in denial
love Myrrhi
I really like to think of myself as a pretty non-judgmental person..but my sister started seeing this guy and from week 1, i knew he was married, and she was pretty much in denial, then this went on for weeks and then finally 3 months later, she called his bluff and finally got him to admitt to his situation..which is still fully didnt..he told her that his ex wife was still living with him but they werent married (ya right)..andyways..she admitted that she still didnt believe that and stopped seeing him for like a week and now is back to talking to him again and sneaking out to see him because she knows my mother and i would not like her seeing him..I am sooo trying to come form a non-judgmental place cuz shes my sis and i love her and we have just recently started getting close agiain..and its really non of my business...but i cant even look at her in the eyes most of the time thats how much it bothers me..i just cant stop thikning that she actually knows he's married and still seeing him, that there is a wife and child/family involved and that makes me soo sad..and this guy triggers alot of emotions in me..he makes me so mad..again i hate to judge..and i am not saying he is a bad person i just thinking what he is doing is pretty low..but mainly i am angry at my sis for doing it..i thought she would never do somethig like that..especially because she has had it happen to her..right after she moved into a new house with her fiance, she caught him cheating and they broke up..plus she deserves so much better then that..and she's settling for a married man..who is a pathelogical liar by the way..you should hear some of the lies he tries to tell her..she's in denial
love Myrrhi